About this blog

I write about whatever is on my mind at the moment I am writing. Sometimes I may share too much information for your taste, or talk about a topic you find boring or uncomfortable. I'm just sharing my thoughts & experiences as honestly as I can, and would love your feedback, good or bad.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Huge Prize Pack Giveaway

This is my biggest prize giveaway yet!
A $50.00 gift certificate from Pampered Chef!
A $50.00 gift certificate from Thirty-One!
A $50.00 gift certificate from Scentsy!

I just love giving things away. And I love rewarding my loyal blog readers with the chance to win fun stuff! I would tell you that it's more fun to give stuff away than to receive presents myself ... BUT ... if you ask Artie he'll tell you I'm lying. Sadly, I LOVE PRESENTS!! I love getting presents, opening presents, thinking about presents ... yes, I'm selfish. So I try to make up for it by giving things away to others, too. (Big Smile)
So post or comment something you are thankful for and you will be entered in the drawing, which will be on Saturday night.

Monday, October 10, 2011

How to Plan a Great Yard Sale

Why do people think they can just get up on Saturday morning, throw a few boxes out in the driveway and call it a yard sale? I’m here to tell you that is not the way to do it – not if you want to really get rid of stuff and make some money.

A real yard sale (garage sale, rummage sale, tag sale, whatever you want to call it), takes thorough planning and plenty of organization. It’s not a last-minute fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants deal. The last time we had a sale, we went from a garage and driveway overflowing with stuff to one box leftover for Goodwill and sales of over $2,600.00. That’s a lot of money, more than we have ever made from a yard sale, but it would not have been possible without planning!

First of all, we keep our home & garage very organized in the first place. I am married to a neat freak. He has mellowed some over the years, but he’s still fairly rigid. Christmas decorations and keepsakes are in the basement or attic. “Transitional items” (things to sell or give away later) are all kept in bins in the garage. Neatly arranged bins, stacked on the side so that we still always have room to park both cars inside the garage. I do not understand folks (Mom) who have a garage so crammed with THINGS that they can’t park their car inside. I mean, what is a garage for after all?!??! Maybe I should save my strong feelings about that for another blog post.

So when we get tired of something, or outgrow something, or redecorate, we take our old items out into the garage and place them into a bin. After a yard sale has just happened, we usually have 15 or 20 empty bins stacked in the garage. Over the next year or so, they slowly fill back up with items just waiting for a sale. Our neighborhood usually has two sales each year, a spring sale and a fall sale, and we try to participate in both. Last year we only participated in one, which is why it was such a big one for us.

We have also accumulated several folding tables over the years that we refer to as the “yard sale tables.” A couple are from my Mamaw, one from The Dunsmores’ old record table, and some we have purchased over the years. We have six or seven folding tables that we use. We also have a few large pieces of plywood and some sawhorses that Artie stores under the house and pulls out for yard sale time.

We also save our grocery bags throughout the year. We keep them in a bin in the garage, too, as they overflow our pantry-size bag-keeper. By the time a sale rolls around, we have a bin full of grocery bags ready for our customers to carry out FILLED with items!

As you can see, we are pre-organized and we have our supplies on hand. Mom and Mamaw always had yard sales when I was growing up, at least once a year. Artie’s mom always did so, as well. It was not a foreign concept to us.

At least two weeks before the sale, you need to get your ads ready. The Halls Shopper requires that an ad be placed by Wednesday in order to run in the following Monday’s edition. Ads are usually only $5.00 to $10.00 in The Shopper. You have to call the News-Sentinel ads in at least 48 hours in advance. These ads can be quite expensive, but are well worth it in the long run. I believe the News-Sentinel ads for our last sale cost around $60.00 to run two days in the paper and online. Include the date and times, your street address and some directions. List any big items you have for sale, as well as video games, movies, electronics, brand names … any popular items. I usually add “Rain or Shine” at the end because once we’ve done all the preparation, I’m proceeding with the sale one way or the other. We can always pull everything into the garage if we have to, although it would be super-crowded. Here is a sample ad from one of our past sales (with our address changed):

Garage Sale, Saturday May 7, 1234 Halls Road, Beverly Hills Subdivision off Rodeo Drive. Ladies plus-size clothes, men’s name-brand clothes, books, home décor, DVDs, Legos, 19” TV/DVD combo, blue recliner, Xbox 360 & games, Wii system & games, Nintendo DSI & games, exercise bike, portable DVD player, king comforter set, scrapbooking items, much more! Rain or shine!

The more lengthy and specific your ad, the better for your sale. It attracts more people and more people buy more stuff.

So, let’s review so far: You have several months’ worth of items stored neatly in bins. You have tables and surfaces at the ready to display your items. You have placed ads in your local newspaper(s). Now time for the hard work.


At least one week before a sale, we pull the cars out of the garage (which I HATE) and set our tables up inside the garage. Then we pull our bins out and item by item, PRICE EACH THING and place it on a table. We have tables for clothes, tables for household, tables for movies and games, tables for books and toys, etc. Everything is divided into categories and EVERY SINGLE ITEM is priced. Don’t you hate going to a yard sale where no item is priced and you have to ask every time you see something you like? Don’t you also hate going to a yard sale where everything is in boxes and you have to squat or bend down to dig through boxes? Well, your customers will prefer to have items priced and easily seen. Better for sales.

We fold items like shorts, t-shirts, pajamas, swimsuits, and all the other clothes go on hangers. On a hanging rack. They sell small ones at the Dollar Store for about $9.00. Or heavy duty ones on Amazon for about $60.00. I recently sold over 300 items of clothing after my weight loss. Every one of these items was on a hanger, which of course I kept and re-used for the next sale.

If you have small jewelry items, put them in snack-size Ziploc bags. If you have toys with a lot of pieces (i.e. Legos), put them in a giant Ziploc bag or a box. Organize everything! PRICE everything. Don’t put 20 items in a box and say all items 50 cents. How will you remember what came out of that box?

We use the round brightly colored stickers to price our items. If we are doing the sale on our own at our house, we just put a price on the sticker. If we have other people participating with us in the sale (Mom or Kristi, etc.), we put a price and initials on the sticker so we know who gets the money.

The pricing and organizing can take up to a week, so plan accordingly. Specify a “check-out” area and place a chair or two there. Keep a box of grocery bags near the chair, as well as a notepad and pen.

A day or two before the sale, go to the bank and get change. I usually get about $60.00 worth of ones, fives and tens, as well as a roll of quarters. I keep this in an old-fashioned fanny pack around my waist during the entire sale. This is where I take money and make change from all day long, and I don’t have to worry about losing a money box or sitting it down.


Last, but not least, make a few poster board signs. Plan for one at your driveway, one at the end of your street, and one at every street that leads to yours from the main road. Plan on one or two at the main road or the closest major intersection to your house. Put YOUR ADDRESS on the sign and THE DATE(s) of the sale. Otherwise, plenty of people will take advantage of your sign and possibly your newspaper ads and have sales off of your advertising! And don’t forget – when the sale is over – GO TAKE YOUR SIGNS DOWN!!!

Plan to get up early on the day of the sale. Even if your signs and your ads said open at 8:00 a.m., people will start arriving by 7:00 a.m. It will be a busy and stressful morning. Have some help. Don’t try to do it by yourself. Hire a babysitter or call Grandma if you have young kids. Our sales are usually sold out by noon, after which we fold up the tables, sweep the garage, haul any leftovers to Goodwill, and pull the cars back in the garage. Then we go inside and collapse and take a long nap (oh, after counting the money, of course).

So these are my tips for planning a successful yard sale. We have certainly had our fair share over the years. If you do all of these things, you will be prepared for a busy, productive yard sale. And by the time the sale day rolls around, all you have to do is open the garage door.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Louis Vuitton & Range Rovers


Reality television has had such a negative impact on my shopping habits! Just because the Real Housewives & the Kardashians can afford to carry Louis Vuitton and drive Range Rovers does not mean that I can. Doesn't stop me from drooling over those things, however... I mean, isn't this a beautiful vehicle?!?!?!





Although I don't have a Range Rover, I do have a tiny Louis Vuitton collection started. I LOVE this stuff. I want to start collecting the luggage pieces, but I cannot afford that. I just keep staring at it online. A girl can dream, right?


Botox, Juvederm, plastic surgery, Louis Vuitton ... what's next? I REALLY need to stop watching reality shows! I mean, REALLY!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Small Groups


So we recently attended our first Small Group meeting for our new church, The Grove. We have been going to The Grove for about a year now, although we did miss a lot of services during the summer months. We were first drawn to The Grove because of Logan. He has friends from school that go there, and he wanted to go to church with someone he knew. He also enjoys the more contemporary worship service and the music. He likes the relaxed style of the minister, as well. And all three of us love that it's right in Halls, a stone's throw from our house.

Artie & I felt like we needed to take another step and become more involved if we were going to stick with this growing young church. We have enjoyed the services there, as well, although it is quite different from what we were used to in the past. We haven't really made any friends there yet. So we told Logan if he wanted to stay at The Grove, he had to get involved with the youth program and we were going to get involved in a Small Group.

For those of you unfamiliar with Small Groups, they are similar to a Sunday School class except the group meets in someone’s home rather than at the church. There is a fellowship (food) period and then a Bible study period. It is usually a group of similar-aged adults or similar-lifestyle groups. Our group is the 40-and-over adult group. Made me feel my age just signing up.

The meeting was at someone’s house closer to the Corryton area. Artie & I first went to the wrong house (next door), but then we figured out where to go. Everyone there was very nice and welcoming, and introductions were made all around. Everyone else in the group knew one another very well and we were the only newbies.

We gathered in the kitchen, had prayer and then all delved into the wonderful spread the hostess and others had prepared. Artie & I were not told to bring any food since it was our first night. Everyone else brought a dish. The women gathered in the kitchen and the men gathered in the living room. I was comfortable with the women, and joined in their conversations fairly easily. I felt sorry for Artie, since the men mostly talked about sports. :)

When we joined together as a whole group, there were prayer requests made and praise reports given. It was overall a good first experience and we felt like we had made an important first step.

And all I could think about on the way home and over the next few days was my “home” church where we are still members (since 1994). My pastor. My friends from that church. The services, the activities, the history we have there. The altar where I prayed and begged God to give me a child. The same altar where we dedicated our son and saw him saved & baptized in later years.

Times change. People change. Logan doesn’t feel comfortable at the “old” church. He wants to stay put at The Grove. Artie is on the fence. He likes the more streamlined services at The Grove, but misses the spiritual nature of the old church. He thinks we need to keep looking. I know what I want, but at the expense of Logan? And Artie? Oh yeah, and what about GOD – what is it that HE wants? The most important question of all!!

I look at my beautiful piano in my home and how dusty it gets. I don’t write songs anymore. I don’t sing anywhere except in the car. I maybe touch the piano once every couple of months. Is this what God intends for the talents He gave me? Have I wasted them for so long that He just took away my opportunities to use them? I don’t think so. I think we are just waiting on direction. I only hope we can recognize it when it comes.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

My Craft Room

I'm so blessed to have an entire room just for my crafting space. I used to call it my scrap room because I did only scrapbooking in there, but now I have added my sewing machine, so it’s the craft room.

I wanted to wait until it was cleaned up before I took photos to share with the blog, but in reality it’s never completely cleaned up. I mean, there are always works in progress, so I decided to just forge ahead with sharing my room.

Artie helped me set all of this up, but he otherwise kind of avoids the craft room. It’s way too crammed with things and too messy for his taste. He will come in there and sit in the “praying chair” and work puzzles or watch TV sometimes while I scrap or sew, just to keep from us being in different parts of the house. I think his main complaint is that I just have too much stuff. I almost agree – I could probably never use all of my scrap supplies if I scrapped every day for the rest of my life. But ask any scrapper – we are paperholics, toolaholics … half the fun is in collecting the supplies!

This is my desk area. It is quite cluttered! I have my Cricut hooked up to my computer, as well as my two printers. I love the Canon 9000 photo printer. It prints up to 13 x 19 pages, which means I can print an entire 12 x 12 scrap page on one page. This is the only Windows computer left in the house – all the rest are Macs!
This is my Cricut cartridge collection – 101 of them at last count. More than I can possibly use! But I loan them out to friends all the time.
This is my most frequently used cardstock collection. Bazzill is my favorite brand, but I do have some other brands mixed in.
My bookshelves are loaded to the brim with scrapbooking supplies, books, Jim Shore figures, sentimental what-nots …
This is the sewing corner. The sewing machine cabinet and this machine were my beloved Mamaw’s. Artie got me a new Singer machine for my birthday, but we alternate between the two. I’d rather use Mamaw’s just for sentimental reasons, but it’s a little more complicated. I still have a looooong way to go in the sewing department!
Rubber stamps galore. I love stamping on pages or cards, but I do not use my stamps very often. Such a mess to clean them off each time. And if I emboss, even more mess with the embossing powder.
These four shots are different angles of my work table. It is actually quite clean at the moment, compared to its usual status. This is where I actually sit and put pages or cards together.



I try to use all types of creative storage ideas for my many, many, maaaannny supplies. This is a jewelry display that I’m using to store die-cuts on. You can also see the baby wipes I use to clean my hands after using any stamps or inks. My small photo trimmer is here and my basket of adhesives.
These small ink pads are great for inking the edges of a page or mat. I enjoy keeping them in this jar because I can see whatever color I’m digging for at the moment.
My Stampin’ Up ink pads. I have the entire set, but as I said, I don’t stamp as much as I should.
I love these storage drawers and shelves. They used to hold ALL of my scrap supplies. That’s hard to believe. I try to stay very organized, but it’s difficult when you have this much STUFF!
This is another work surface that Artie built for me. I have a small workspace in between my tool collection. Here you can see my Tim Holtz Vagabond and my dies and templates to use with that. You can also see some of my embellishments hanging on pegs. I have so many of them that I can’t even remember what I have to use them when I need them!
More embellishments, flowers, candy dots; my Slice cutting mat and my big paper cutter; the heat embosser; the electric distresser … so many tools!
More paper storage. All of my paper shelves are filled so full they won’t hold any more paper. I have not bought any in several weeks, but there is a new October Afternoon line out …
I love getting ideas and inspiration from my scrap magazines. I keep this basket next to my “praying chair” and read or look for ideas when I want some quiet time.
These are a few of the mini-albums I’ve made. I like to display some of my work in the craft room.
Here are a couple of my scrap pages.
And the decorated dress forms. I got this idea from my favorite scrap store, Scrappin’ in the City. They have a BIG dress like this. I wish I had room for more of these. I see them at Marshall’s & Ross all the time, but as you can see, I have NOWHERE ELSE to put ANYTHING in this room!!!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

HIGH Maintenance!

Why does it cost so much and take so much work to be a girl? Fortunately I do not keep track of what I spend on “maintenance,” because I’m sure it would shock even me if I did. The last time I had my hair cut & colored, a few weeks ago, it was $140.00. That was just highlights. It’s even more if I get full color, too. There’s an extra $15.00 for brow waxing, plus the special straightening shampoo and the “damaged hair” conditioner that I have to use because I color & flat-iron my hair. So I hardly ever get out of the salon for less than $200.00. Then I have to have a good hair dryer and a flat iron. And the special spray to keep the flat iron from damaging your hair … good grief.

I do my own nails, which saves a bunch of money. My nails grow fairly long on their own. The few times I have had acrylic nails, I have ended up peeling them off and doing major damage to my real nails. Polish doesn’t cost that much, but to get acrylic nails put on is at least $40.00 and they require weekly maintenance. That adds up, too!

I love to get a pedicure – not necessarily for the nail polish, but for the pampering treatment. Most pedicures cost at least $50.00 to $60.00.

Then there are the teeth. Regular trips to the dentist. Whitening treatments. Special rinses. Gotta have those pearly whites looking WHITE!

What about makeup? A girl can spend a fortune and HOURS on makeup! Not just the foundation, blush, eye shadow and lipstick, either. Now there are so many other products – concealers, color correctors, eye and lip primers, highlighters, PLUS all the anti-aging, wrinkle fixers and cleansers, moisturizers … the list is endless!

There are also the “necessary” luxuries, such as an occasional massage and maybe some injectibles for the face. I try to get a massage every two or three months. My back pain is a roaring beast and is usually soothed for at least a week by a good massage. I had a hot stone massage once and that was fabulous! It felt incredibly great during the massage, but the effects were not as long-lasting as a regular massage.

I’ve had Juvederm injections around my mouth to fill in the laugh lines. I’ve had Botox injected in my forehead and on the bridge of my nose (OUCH!!!!) to smooth out the wrinkles. Both of those were well worth the money and the “pinch” associated with each injection. (It took about 25 injections of Juvederm over two visits before I was happy).

It costs a lot and takes a lot of time to look good - especially as we get older. I guess that's why we are high maintenance! :)

Monday, October 3, 2011

Two Years After Gastric Bypass

Next month I will mark the two-year anniversary of my gastric bypass surgery. 95% of the time, I am glad I did it. The other 5% is when I get sick from over-eating or eating something I'm not supposed to; then I regret it for a few minutes. Overall it has made a very positive change in my health and appearance, and therefore in my overall outlook.
I lost a total of 137 pounds from the surgery. Most of that weight loss occurred within the first six months. I then gained about 5 pounds back, and then lost about 10 more. I have been at the same weight now for about a year. I would like to lose about 10-15 more pounds, but I'm giving my body plenty of time to recover from the major plastic surgery I had back in March before I do anything else.
My blood pressure has greatly improved with the weight loss. My sleep apnea is gone completely. My knees and hips don't hurt as bad as they did before. Unfortunately, the weight loss did not cure my back pain, and that is something I deal with on a daily basis. I have recently also injured my tailbone somehow and I feel like an OLD LADY with all these joint ailments!
One negative health side effect I've had since the gastric bypass involves my eyes. Apparently many gastric bypass patients get dehydrated very easily. I do a TERRIBLE job of drinking water, and mostly drink Diet Coke all day long. I tend to stay very dehydrated, and this has ultimately affected my eyes. I have worn contacts for 30 years, and now I'm back in glasses to let my extremely dry eyes heal. I developed a condition called neovascularization, which means the red blood vessels in the white part of my eyes are growing into my cornea. This is not reversible. They are growing that way in a "search for oxygen" according to my ophthalmologist. In order to let my eyes get oxygen, I can't wear my contacts. To me this is very depressing, as I wore ONLY my contacts for the past 30 years. To me glasses are uncomfortable and inconvenient - but hey, sight is important! Gotta do what I gotta do!
The only other "negative" since the surgery is that I can't pig out anymore. This is also a blessing and one of the reasons I had the surgery in the first place. But sometimes you just want to sit down and eat a LOT of something. Like pizza, or Mexican food, or dessert. I can't do that anymore. I can't really tolerate fried foods very well. I can't eat much bread at all, and french fries cause very painful heartburn. I can barely tolerate sugar, which means no cakes, pies, or desserts without making myself sick. I can't eat ice cream at all, and in fact, I believe I have become practically lactose intolerant since the surgery. Overall, the things I can't eat needed to be eliminated from my diet anyway, but 43 years of eating habits don't change overnight!
As I have discussed ad nauseum, the plastic surgery I had AFTER the weight loss has been the hardest on my body and my spirit. I am still not 100% and in fact, just had some blood work done last week to check on my iron levels and thyroid functions again. I have had to have two series of iron infusions since the gastric bypass. I don't absorb iron very well since then, and I have to take two iron supplements daily. Infusions are not fun at all! My energy level has been at an all-time low lately and I'm hoping there is a fix for that.
Overall, I am very glad that I had the gastric bypass procedure. The follow-up team that Dr. Boyce has in place is amazing and covers all your aftercare needs. For me, and for Artie with his surgery, it has been a very positive experience.
This is me & Mom before my gastric bypass surgery.
My niece, Deann, and me prior to my surgery.
Me & Kristi before the gastric bypass.
This is me experimenting with a darker red hair color after losing about 100 lbs.
This is me & Mom on Mother's Day 2011, pretty much how I look now. Hopefully you can see a big difference between the before surgery pictures & after surgery pictures!